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COMMUNITY

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meet your hosts
JERRAD LOPES is a Christian author, speaker, and the founder of Dad Tired. As a father of four, he knows first-hand that living as a leader in your home is a weighty calling. He is passionate about equipping men and fostering community where together men can live out the gospel.

He and his wife Leila live in South Carolina with their four children. Learn more about Jerrad at here. ​
CHRIS HILKEN is a pastor from San Diego California. He is also a trained apologist and frequently shares at conferences aimed at engaging the mind & the heart of believers and non-believers alike. He’s a single father of 5 children after losing his wife tragically in 2021. He shares his journey of grief as a testimony to the goodness of God.

we value

the gospel

+ We ask about the why not the what, because we know Jesus was about the heart.
+ Everything we create points back to Jesus.
+ Everything we create is Good News to men.
+ We are not shame based or a heavy burden for men to bear.
+ We remove checklists to help men fall in love with Jesus.

simplicity

+ We use common language to point men back to Jesus.
+ We’d rather people reject the message of Jesus because it is hard, ​not because they don’t understand it.
+ Everything we do is geared to relate toward men.

community

+ ​We strive to connect like-minded men in authentic community.
+ Our communities are groups of friends who remind each other of the gospel.

authenticity

+ ​We freely confess our sins because our identity is not based on them.
+ We are more about being humble than having it all figured out.
+ We give the freedom to live unpolished lives.

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